Bachelor Party
| The bachelor party is a
special time for the groom and close male friends to spend time together before
the wedding ceremony. This event was originally called stag night or the
bachelor dinner. This tradition originates from the 5th century BC in Sparta
when the groom would gather with his male friends the night before his wedding.
His male friends would toast the groom to ward off evil spirits. Bachelor
parties have always had a reputation for lots of drinking. Today many people
refer to bachelor parties as the grooms "last taste of freedom" and their last
celebration of single status. The party allows the groom and wedding attendants
to release their jitters before the wedding. Bachelor parties, like
bachelorette parties, are typically held close to the wedding date, but it
should not occur the night before the wedding. This would put unnecessary
stress on the groom and wedding attendants. Also, you don't want anyone
hung-over or exhausted for the wedding day. Anywhere from a week before the
wedding to two nights before the wedding are good times to have the party.
The best man is usually in charge of making the arrangements and he should talk to the groom about who to invite to make sure everyone will get along. Of course the groom, best man and the ushers should all be included, as well as any other close friends or family. Keep in mind that this should be a small gathering of very close friends and family, with only about 10-15 people. The best man should also ask for the groom's input on what he would like to do. This is a time of celebration and the groom's preferences should be taken into account. There are endless options on what to do; hire a female stripper; go to a strip club, dance club or bar; spend a day on a boat; take a hike; go to a sporting event; go on a ski trip; or go gambling. The key here is to have fun! People usually drink during bachelor parties, but don't let things get out of control. It is the best man's responsibility to help keep things under control and to make sure the groom doesn't do anything he is going to regret. Make sure everyone has a good time, but it is never acceptable to cheat. Traditionally the party ends when the groom makes a toast to his bride By Nicole Mazzeo Wrapwithus wedding favors |